You Say Tomato, They Say Zucchini: How to Thrive When Your Teen Pushes Back
The teenage years often feel like a battleground, with pushback mistaken for rebellion. But what if it’s growth—a chance for parents and teens to thrive? Reflecting on my journey, including the loss of Maddie and raising my boys, I’ve learned teens need space to explore their identity. Mentors can help by offering neutral guidance, building confidence, and teaching life skills, easing parent-teen tensions.
I Had Everything in High School, But No One Knew What I Was Hiding
In high school, I had everything: sports, popularity, good grades. But inside? I was insecure, constantly questioning myself. The truth is, even the most confident-looking teens struggle. They just learn to hide it. Without a safe space, they bottle it up, seek validation in the wrong places, and fear asking for help. That’s why mentorship matters. Who made a difference in your life? Now, imagine being that person for someone else.
The Hidden Opportunity Almost Every Parent Misses With Their Teen
Most parents see their teen’s push for independence as a challenge; arguments, questioning authority, emotional distance. But what if this phase was actually an opportunity? The Thriving Zone is a chance to build trust, connection, and resilience. A mentor can bridge the gap, easing tension while guiding teens toward confidence and growth. Don’t wait for problems—lean in before they start.
The Silent Struggles of Teens: How to Know When They’re Feeling Lost
Feeling lost doesn’t mean a teen is depressed or anxious. It’s often about lacking confidence, direction, or the ability to process emotions. Teens need guidance to navigate these challenges and build resilience. By recognizing the signs, offering support, and normalizing their emotions, parents can help them find their path. When needed, mentors, coaches, or therapists can provide additional guidance.
Mentorship Matters: This Wisdom Will Help Fast Track Your Career
A few weeks ago, I shared a post about my son Zac starting his career. Many of you offered guidance, including Hilton Barbour, who shared incredible advice and followed up with a brilliant email. His wisdom reminded me how powerful it is to share our experiences. Your guidance can shape future leaders, so don’t underestimate its impact. Thank you, Hilton, for inspiring Zac and many others.
The Hidden Truth About Rewards, Punishments, and Raising Resilient Kids
Parenting isn’t about control. It’s about connection. Shifting from punishment to partnership empowers teens to grow. By celebrating wins, listening deeply, and modeling resilience, we create trust instead of conflict. The Gap and the Gain teaches us to measure progress, not shortcomings, and reminds us: practice what you preach. Parenting success starts with fostering accountability, empathy, and love.