Why ‘Tough Love’ Is the Wrong Answer for Struggling Teens?

Tough love doesn’t build resilience, it pushes teens into silence. When struggling, they don’t need more pressure; they need to feel heard. Adding stress triggers shutdown, not motivation. Real growth happens when teens feel supported, not judged. Instead of pushing harder, try listening first. Because the strongest foundation for success isn’t fear, it’s trust. Your teen needs you, not just your rules.