‘What Didn’t I See?’ The Question Every Parent Needs to Ask

One day, your playful, affectionate child stops laughing at your jokes and starts rolling their eyes. The shift feels sudden, but the signs. like mood changes or withdrawing, are often subtle. As parents, asking What didn’t I see? helps us stay connected, spot the struggles they’re hiding, and show up when they need us most. Even when they pull away, they still need us.